What does it take in order for you to feel absolutely loved by your significant other?
For me it's true that the glances, touches and tone and substance of dialogue are nice but the thing that is most significant is knowing that my partner is being thoughtful and considerate of me when I am not in her prescence. For example: Knowing that, in my absence, my partner is thinking of me and including me in her plans shows me more than anything else that I am absolutley loved and appreciated. It's moments like getting that phone call at work just to say a quick "Hello, I miss you and I'm thinking of you." or receiving an email invitation at work for a "dinner and a movie date" (romantic efforts).